How to cope with health anxiety
Health anxiety can have a debilitating effect on your wellbeing and quality of life. For some, it will be so bad that they might not want to engage in normal everyday activities for fear of catching an illness or hurting themselves. If you’re experiencing symptoms of health anxiety, there are a number of anxiety coping strategies you can use to manage your negative thoughts and help you continue to function normally.
Challenge your health anxiety thoughts
Draw a table with two columns. In the first column, write a list of common worries that you have about your health. In the second column, write down how a balanced friend might interpret the situation.
For example:
First column – “I’ve got a headache - it could be a brain tumour.”
Second column – “There’s lots of causes of headaches. It could be because I haven’t drunk enough today. Maybe I should have some water.”
Return to ‘normal’ gradually
If you’re struggling, it’s OK to slow down and limit the things that might be making your anxiety worse. Write a list of activities that might be triggering for you, starting with the easiest before working your way up to doing the activities that feel the most frightening.
Over time, re-introduce these activities. Reward yourself as you do, but don’t give yourself a hard time if some days are more difficult than others.
Focus your attention on the world around you
If you’re feeling overwhelmed or anxious, try using the 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 method. Train yourself to focus your attention on:
- 5 things you can see
- 4 things you can hear
- 3 things you can feel
- 2 things you can smell or taste
- 1 thing which makes you feel grateful
While you do this, practise taking long, slow, deep breaths. Breathe in for 4 seconds, then out again for 4 seconds. Imagine you have a balloon in your stomach that's slowly inflating and deflating. This can be an effective way to reduce physical symptoms like an increase in heart rate or chest pains.